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We get it: You're Grateful AND...

self love through allowing your ache for more

We get it: you’re grateful.

But what are you truly aching for??

I’m noticing a trend among women,

Each week, in client sessions, I'm hearing a common cry:

You're aching for MORE.

More connection.

More presence.

More time for yourself.

More energy

and money

and intimate sex.

You're aching to be met.

Yet as soon as this ache is expressed in flows a compulsion to cover your ache with gratitude and “okay-ness”:

“But I’m fine”.

“I’m so grateful for all I have”.

“I’m good, really”.

Really? Are you good?

And is good, good?

I’m not convinced.

Let's be a stand for your deepest heart’s desires being fulfilled. The whole feast. Not just the scraps.

Let's stand for us all waking up from the spell that tells us what we want is somehow not holy.

Let's stand for trusting that your desires are in fact God speaking, the Divine Feminine Herself rising and communicating Her truth through your desire, bodily sensation and feeling.

The feminine aches because she longs for union with God. To be fully ravished.

This longing is exemplified as an ache for absolute presence and integrity from her men.

It really is that simple. And it's holy. And it's natural. And it's needed for our collective return to wholeness.  

Our Culture (and our men) need the truth of our feelings,

not some packaged up "I'm fine" version of ourselves.

And certainly not the version of us willing to settle for the scraps of his mediocre presence.

So perhaps instead of being so quick to be grateful, perhaps it’s time to be with your ache. Without judgement.

Without apology

and without need to package it up in a pretty gratitude sandwich.

This ache-shame-ache cycle is causing stuck-ness and confusion in your female body.

The most self loving thing you can do is drop the mask.

Be with your ache.

Feel the sensation of desire for more in your body. Be with it.

Want what you want.

No need to add disclaimers.

Get real.

Feel the holy rage.

Speak what you want.

Give yourself what you need in this very moment, if you can.

Get yours.

No more settling.

We know you’re grateful,

Mary Catherine

***In the comments below, tell me: what are you aching for? Share away: without judgement, without apology and no gratitude sandwich. I'd love to hear from YOU. <3

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